The Yat (One) And Only Journey…

The Lampe Berger Personality Makeover - Part 1

I guess most of you guys heard or have knowledge (less or much) about Lampe Berger (LB)or Estebel or DCHL, the company that sells lamp oil fuels and fragrances a.k.a aroma therapy oil from Paris, France..

I do believe that other than LB member itself, not much people like LB..

Anyway, here’s a story of a friend of mine..I would rather say a not-so-close old friend..His name is Gary Mak..Yes, real name, no cover up at all..

And another friend, name Raven..Both of them were couple few years back..

Back then, Gary and Raven were a loving couple and Gary WAS a good and kind guy..

He’s quite helpful and he respects people as who he/she is..But things changed..

As far as I know, they broke up due to differences in family background, education, and also some common relationship problems..

Friends in our circle would know who I’m talking about and don’t worry, it’s approved by Raven herself for me to write this entry..

So, Gary felt frustrated and vowed to succeed in life for not wanting to lose to Raven, which he’s fighting for his future..

I heard that his job of 3 years ago (2005) was quite good, earning him RM5k per month, but I’m not so sure bout his profession/job..

Then, he heard bout LB and joined the dark side, left his RM5k wage of job and did fulltime with LB..

I heard that he made quite a fortune with LB and most of us cut-off contact with him because of his aggressive approach..

Time went on and Raven got herself a boyfriend while studying in UMS (Sabah) and Gary got himself a girlfriend while doing in LB..

So now, after 3 years, Gary talked to Raven on MSN and I thought it’s actually quite awkward..

The following conversation is to show you the arrogance of most LB people, if not all, and you should distance yourself from them few light years away..

It’s to tell my dear friends how Gary has changed ever since..And also a warning to those without knowledge of LB..

Take note that the conversation was started up by Gary himself~!

2/19/2008 12:35:45 PM Gary - hi
2/19/2008 12:35:52 PM Gary - same 2
2/19/2008 12:35:57 PM Gary - u
2/19/2008 12:36:54 PM Gary - not working?
2/19/2008 1:03:28 PM raven - hey
2/19/2008 1:03:33 PM raven - working lo
2/19/2008 1:03:45 PM Gary - oh ok
2/19/2008 1:03:50 PM Gary - i tot u still study
2/19/2008 1:03:53 PM Gary - when get married?
2/19/2008 1:04:25 PM raven - Study in the same tIme
2/19/2008 1:04:31 PM raven - get married arrr
2/19/2008 1:04:53 PM Gary - when
2/19/2008 1:05:06 PM raven - depends when he wan me lo
2/19/2008 1:05:07 PM raven - hehe
2/19/2008 1:05:22 PM Gary - lol bad luck
2/19/2008 1:05:44 PM raven - who bad luck ?
2/19/2008 1:05:46 PM raven - u ?
2/19/2008 1:05:53 PM Gary - lol
2/19/2008 1:05:56 PM Gary - u
2/19/2008 1:06:18 PM raven - me ?
2/19/2008 1:06:33 PM raven - in wut sense 1st ?
2/19/2008 1:07:01 PM Gary - fm maturity prediction
2/19/2008 1:07:15 PM raven - HUh ?
2/19/2008 1:07:23 PM raven - u mean im stil young to get married?
2/19/2008 1:07:39 PM Gary - not mature enuf la
2/19/2008 1:07:49 PM raven - yea lo
2/19/2008 1:08:04 PM raven - i also Not ready for tat
2/19/2008 1:08:09 PM raven - but bf is ady 27
2/19/2008 1:08:13 PM raven - see how lo
2/19/2008 1:08:21 PM Gary - lol
2/19/2008 1:09:19 PM raven - u le?
2/19/2008 1:09:29 PM Gary - soon ler
2/19/2008 1:09:42 PM raven - will invite me o nOt de?
2/19/2008 1:09:56 PM Gary - no lor
2/19/2008 1:09:57 PM Gary - lol

This part is total son of a bitch..Even if he holds grudge against Raven and not even want to invite her to the wedding dinner or whatsoever, why start up the conversation??

Let’s continue..

2/19/2008 1:10:26 PM raven - aiyo
2/19/2008 1:10:29 PM raven - Ok lo
2/19/2008 1:10:33 PM Gary - lol
2/19/2008 1:11:46 PM raven - then good luck n all the best in ur life
2/19/2008 1:11:55 PM raven - wish u from bottom in my heart
2/19/2008 1:12:04 PM Gary - hahah thanks
2/19/2008 1:14:43 PM raven - just if u remember my grandpa
2/19/2008 1:14:47 PM raven - pls pray for hIm
2/19/2008 1:14:50 PM raven - he got cancer
2/19/2008 1:15:11 PM raven - my mum told me secretly de
2/19/2008 1:15:38 PM Gary - then what did u do for your family?
2/19/2008 1:16:05 PM raven - take k of him
2/19/2008 1:16:10 PM raven - help hIm massage lo
2/19/2008 1:16:15 PM Gary - ur grandpa in sabah meh
2/19/2008 1:16:20 PM raven - cause he doesnt kNow he got cancer
2/19/2008 1:16:26 PM raven - Im iN KL Now
2/19/2008 1:16:31 PM raven - takiNg master in UM
2/19/2008 1:16:36 PM Gary - u finished ur study already?
2/19/2008 1:16:47 PM Gary - what type of cancer
2/19/2008 1:16:47 PM raven - transfer to UM ady

Well, he kept interrupting and kept asking whether she’s still studying or not..

I believe that Gary was quite close to Raven’s family because of their past relationship..

In this scenario, I don’t see any caring or kindness in Gary’s mind or heart at all even Raven kept telling him bout her grandpa’s illness..

2/19/2008 1:16:56 PM Gary - so ur bf in sabah how
2/19/2008 1:17:02 PM raven - we r good
2/19/2008 1:17:17 PM raven - just tat if god can help me reduce his pain
2/19/2008 1:17:34 PM raven - i Need more praEr pray for hIm
2/19/2008 1:18:05 PM Gary - u r a christian?
2/19/2008 1:18:15 PM raven - Nope
2/19/2008 1:18:18 PM Gary - then
2/19/2008 1:18:27 PM raven - only christian can pray ?
2/19/2008 1:18:31 PM raven - don thiNk so
2/19/2008 1:18:48 PM Gary - i guess u r not a christian too
2/19/2008 1:18:50 PM Gary - lol
2/19/2008 1:19:33 PM raven - wutever religion it is
2/19/2008 1:19:47 PM raven - there’s some1 protecting u
2/19/2008 1:19:49 PM raven - us
2/19/2008 1:20:05 PM Gary - believing in religion is not to get protection
2/19/2008 1:20:18 PM raven - as long as u believe in wut u trust for
2/19/2008 1:20:20 PM raven - i KNow
2/19/2008 1:20:24 PM Gary - it is to tell you to do good things and not instill painful memories and bad things to others
2/19/2008 1:20:29 PM raven - at least some1 is listening
2/19/2008 1:20:57 PM Gary - do not do things to others if you do not want others to do the same thing to you. that is all what it is

Now first of all, my perception of believing in religion as a Free-Thinker, to be in a religion is NOT to do good things and not instill painful memories and bad things to others..

To believe a religion’s belief, it’s to get directions in life so that you will live life to the fullest..

Whether it’s a good or bad thing or painful or good memory is not a religion to decide..A religion’s belief is just to guide you the way that you think it’s best to follow..

Good or bad is to be told by history, not religion..

2/19/2008 1:21:16 PM Gary - i hv told u you are not matured enuf since last conversation
2/19/2008 1:21:27 PM Gary - till this year, you have not grown yet.
2/19/2008 1:21:55 PM raven - yea yea
2/19/2008 1:22:02 PM Gary - religion is not an excuse for anyone to run away if they have committed wrongful deeds
2/19/2008 1:22:13 PM raven - did i say so ?
2/19/2008 1:22:20 PM raven - u r weird
2/19/2008 1:22:27 PM raven - i din say anythIng bout tat
2/19/2008 1:22:31 PM Gary - you did not say any but you hv behave like one
2/19/2008 1:23:00 PM raven - i just Hope some1 up there pls take care of my granpa
2/19/2008 1:23:01 PM Gary - raven, step out of your circle and look around..there is so much things to see and to do
2/19/2008 1:23:21 PM Gary - you are keeping yourself in a circle of a box
2/19/2008 1:23:24 PM Gary - never grow
2/19/2008 1:23:32 PM raven - walau
2/19/2008 1:23:39 PM Gary - grandpa is one thing. the docs will be there to take care of him
2/19/2008 1:24:12 PM Gary - don’t you ever regret of something you have done wrongfully before in your past?
2/19/2008 1:24:23 PM Gary - did you really look into yourself and realize?

Here I believe the he’s referring to Raven’s idea on the break up part, which he deemed SINFUL and WRONGFUL..

2/19/2008 1:24:43 PM Gary - and try your very best to do more good deeds to the society?
2/19/2008 1:25:03 PM Gary - ur 24 yrs old rite
2/19/2008 1:25:06 PM raven - wut hav u done for the society
2/19/2008 1:25:07 PM raven - ?
2/19/2008 1:25:31 PM Gary - i ask u. hv u ever did something bad in ur past, that you feel regretted?
2/19/2008 1:25:39 PM raven - HmMM
2/19/2008 1:25:55 PM Gary - did u really apologized?
2/19/2008 1:25:57 PM raven - who doesnT make any mistake in life?
2/19/2008 1:26:07 PM raven - people learn from mistake
2/19/2008 1:26:17 PM Gary - did you really feel sorry and learn from mistake??
2/19/2008 1:26:24 PM Gary - and apologize?
2/19/2008 1:26:31 PM raven - as least I saYAng my bf NOw
2/19/2008 1:26:35 PM raven - never betray hIM
2/19/2008 1:26:41 PM raven - take good care for hiM
2/19/2008 1:26:52 PM Gary - u r a UNI student right now arent u
2/19/2008 1:26:54 PM raven - at least i do housework n CooK for hIm everyday in sabah
2/19/2008 1:27:07 PM Gary - how come you still have the broken english
2/19/2008 1:27:10 PM raven - i LOve hIm wit all my heart

From here again, when he can’t really condemn Raven regarding her good deeds or community service whatsoever, he switched to other topic..

He talked about her broken English..

Yes, I’m quite surprised that his English has improved tremendously considering he’s not very well educated and had stopped studying after SPM..

Perhaps it’s the LB effect..

By the way, I don’t think LB bring any good to the society as well..IMHO, it brings more harm than good..

2/19/2008 1:27:39 PM Gary - yeah how many victims u had before you finally get to learn from your mistake?
2/19/2008 1:27:52 PM Gary - world is round..better realize than too late
2/19/2008 1:27:54 PM raven - chattIng wit u doesnt require any good english
2/19/2008 1:28:17 PM raven - how u KNow the circle of my life NOw?
2/19/2008 1:28:25 PM raven - we din even chat more than 2 tImes?
2/19/2008 1:28:40 PM Gary - doesn’t require good english…this is the problem with UNI student…they read too many books till they have attitude prblms
2/19/2008 1:28:54 PM raven - Don judge a bOoK from it’s cover
2/19/2008 1:28:57 PM Gary - yea. it is because i do not even want to talk to you

Now, I thought he’s the one that started up the conversation yet, he said he don’t even want to talk to her..

And oh, Uni students read too many books till have attitude problems?

I beg to differ, so you were saying that it’s better leave the school at PMR level (or lower) and join LB instead? LOL, retarded I would say..

And umm, did anyone tell him that LB people sniff too much of those oil till they have attitude problem too? Heck with it..

2/19/2008 1:29:00 PM raven - tat’s too shallow
2/19/2008 1:29:16 PM Gary - you think i know you by cover??? LOL totally immature thinking raven
2/19/2008 1:29:24 PM Gary - and do you know what is raven means?
2/19/2008 1:29:27 PM raven - My gOd
2/19/2008 1:29:28 PM Gary - burung gagak. u know?
2/19/2008 1:29:42 PM raven - how many years ago , ?? we din keep in Touch
2/19/2008 1:29:47 PM raven - people do change
2/19/2008 1:29:52 PM raven - of cox i kNow
2/19/2008 1:30:00 PM Gary - the black bird that flies around in the city which people do not like and hate about it
2/19/2008 1:30:18 PM raven - yea , then u judge people by it’s name ?
2/19/2008 1:30:21 PM Gary - change…i do not even need to see you and i know where you are standing and progressing now
2/19/2008 1:30:32 PM raven - then ur name means u r sinful n dirty
2/19/2008 1:30:33 PM Gary - no. the name suites u much! LOL
2/19/2008 1:30:46 PM Gary - look into dictionary before you say anything raven
2/19/2008 1:30:52 PM Gary - i am not that easy for you to tease on

By the way Gary, raven is a type of bird of the same species as crow, not burung gagak you idiot..

Burung gagak is Bahasa Melayu, not English..

And yeah, crow is the black bird that flies around which people don’t really like..

But mind you, according to Wikipedia, ravens have high intelligence and are perhaps the smartest birds..

Their intelligence might be on par with canids such as wolves..Now who’s the smart ass here?

I shall stop here because the debate is getting too long..

We shall continue in Part 2..

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